Insight #6. love till death do us part..

Yesterday, my god brother, C.C called me around 6-ish in the evening, asking where I was, I was in Bdr Utama helping my mum to do the Bak Chang, an annual Chinese festival of rice dumpling. He said he was in the Uptown area and he just finished an interview. So, we had dinner. I picked him up and along the way, he asked if I can do him a Ba Zi reading on a someone.. I asked who? Turns out that he knew a young chap who is stricken with cancer and this young chap had made the decision to leave Malaysia and go back to US of A so he could further seek treatment or prepare the inevitable. 

C.C described him as young, insightful, full of life, happy go lucky and extremely intelligent. He also told me he was five feet three, GAWD! So my type of guy I'd like to date and have as a partner.. of course, he said to me, "He's all mine.. you can't have him Tai lo!" I laughed out loud and when we're done with dinner, I took all the details about McCutie mix and worked out his BA ZI. Apparently his BA ZI did indicated a sickly and weak person. And C.C showed me an e-mail reply from McCutie mix. As I read the contents of the e-mail, He is certainly very thoughtful and a sweetie. He decided to not start any kind of relationship with C.C and to leave it as a wonderful memory. McCutie mix doesn't want my god brother to suffer when he breathes his last breath... He gave reasons that it would make him die a bitter and angry man should he and C.C are in a relationship. He felt that C.C should not have to bear all the grief and loss when he passes on. C.C was very upset and asked if He should be more persistent... 

I reminded him that it was McCutie Mix's intention and leave it as it is.. I see both sides of the coin.. but I agree with McCutie Mix. C.C was having mixed feelings... We shall leave it as that...

We all have our own crosses to bear, no one can take over or replace our suffering. Alone we are born, alone we suffer, and alone we die and move on... It's good to let go when you have finally reach the end of the road.. that way.. you won't be leaving with bitterness and anger.... 

Calm the mind... empty the thoughts on all the needs and wants.. You will achieve a peaceful and happy state of death....  

Sadhu and Sarva Mangalam